Appearances can be deceiving Don’t underestimate me because I’m quiet. I know more than I say, think more than I speak, and observe more than you know…
Your Story vs Their Story One of the risks of being quiet is that the other people can fill your silence with their own interpretation: You’re bored. You’re depressed. You’re shy. You’re stuck up. You’re judgmental. When others can’t read us, they write their own story—not always one we choose or that’s true to who we are. Sophia Dembling […]
Being free I am at my most bearable in familiar surroundings with 2 or 3 friends; then I am free, am not forced to be continually attentive and cooperative, but can take part in what’s going on if and when I feel like it, as much or as little as I wish; no one misses me, no […]
Soul mates People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the […]
The Golden Spruce Grant Hadwin got a chainsaw and did something terrible. Originally posted on The New Yorker There was only one giant golden spruce in the world, and, until a man named Grant Hadwin took a chainsaw to it, in 1997, it had stood for more than three hundred years in a steadily shrinking patch of […]
Into The Wild Make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, […]
We are responsible for who we become Our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
Charge your batteries I love walking in the woods, on the trails, along the beaches. I love being part of nature. I love walking alone. It is therapy. One needs to be alone, to recharge one’s batteries. Grace Kelly
A big TV We got sidetracked and diverted into these boxes, these cubicles in offices. So instead of investing your time in a passion, you’ve sold your life to work for an uncaring machine that doesn’t understand you. That’s the problem with our society. And what’s the reward? Go home and get a big TV. Joe Rogan […]
Narrow standards of success The time has come, to broaden our notion of the spectrum of talents. The single most important contribution education can make to a child’s development is to help him toward a field where his talents best suit him, where he will be satisfied and competent. We’ve completely lost sight of that. Instead we subject everyone […]
Giving Up vs Growing Up Giving up something that no longer serves a purpose, or protects you, or helps you, isn’t giving up at all, it’s growing up. Laurell K. Hamilton
Do they really care? It took me a while to recognize the difference between someone who genuinely cares about you and welcomes your company and someone who’s just interested in your life’s latest development. Tracey Coretta
There is no app for this We are so immersed in the modern digital world inside. Put the phone down, better yet – turn it off. Rediscover the simple joys of spending time outdoors.
Paper Pushers Roger from the council visited. Gervais offers wisdom. Pilkington tells it how it is. Brilliant.
Gym Bunny Let’s have a moment of silence for all those who are stuck in traffic on their way to the gym to ride stationary bicycles.
Hard Work Everybody has a hard job. All real work is hard. My work happened also to be undoable. Morning after morning for 50 years, I faced the next page defenceless and unprepared. Writing for me was a feat of self-preservation. If I did not do it, I would die. So I did it. Obstinacy, not talent, […]
It’s good to be ignored I spent a great deal of my life being ignored. I was always very happy that way. Being ignored is a great privilege. That is how I think I learnt to see what others do not see and to react to situations differently. I simply looked at the world, not really prepared for anything. Saul […]
Peter Pan I think childhood is something you don’t appreciate until it’s been taken from you. Now I understand why Peter Pan didn’t want to grow up.